Coffee with 2021's 3 Words

Passion

Gratitude

Vulnerability 

These are my 3 words that I desire to align myself to this year.

A few days before 2020 ended, I wrote out a web diagram breaking down each of these words, and it gave me a clearer picture of who I desire to be for myself, God, and others.

Passion: to endure the suffering for dreams to be fully realized and birthed physically, spiritually, and financially

Living in passion in 2021 looks like this:

  • Completing my 30-day commitment of resetting my body in January 2021

  • Living intentionally and choosing health all of 2021

  • Preparing my body for motherhood

  • Honoring my promises to our financial goals by sticking to our budgets

  • Committing myself to quiet time with God in prayer and conversation

  • Resilience that pushes me through the discomfort and pain of dreams realized

Gratitude: awareness of God as love in everything and in every moment

Living in gratitude in 2021 looks like this:

  • Living in contentment

  • Enjoying each moment

  • Recognizing God’s little and big gifts

  • Being a gift of generosity to others

  • Being present

  • Savoring the mundane and the magical moments

  • Less rushing and more rhythm

  • Enjoying more and buying less

  • Thanks-living

Vulnerability: unapologetically myself in honesty and brokenness towards myself, others, and God

Living in vulnerability in 2021 looks like this:

  • Re-evaluating what I say “yes” to and what I say “no” to

  • Choosing grace not perfection

  • Asking for help

  • Requesting

  • Less editing

  • Human-being and not a human-doing

  • Frugality and good stewardship

  • More community and less competition

  • Authentic boundaries

  • More real & less gossip

Feed the hungry, and help those in trouble. Then your light will shine out from the darkness, and the darkness around you will be as bright as noon. The Lord will guide you continually, giving you water when you are dry and restoring your strength. You will be like a well-watered garden, like an ever-flowing spring.
— (Isaiah 58:10-11 NIV ) - My Verse of 2021

I desire to be passionate, grateful, and vulnerable, so I have the capacity to pour myself out for others: to feed the hungry, help those in trouble, to be a warm light, to be a safe oasis, and a spring that flows and serves.

I encourage you to find the 3 words that will serve as anchors tethering you to your hopes, dreams, and desires. Despite what waves or storms may come, these anchors are guides home.